A 180-day system for men who want better relationships —
whether you're single, dating, married, or trying to be a better dad.
You desire strong relationships. But in the moments that matter most,
you can't find yourself.
Your wife is pulling away — not because she stopped loving you, but because she can't reach you when it matters.
Your kids are watching how you handle pressure. What they see is what they learn.
In dating, hard conversations, anywhere it counts — the confident version of you shows up too late.
You've read the books, listened to the podcasts. But the moment tension hits, it's the same pattern.
"Kill the pattern. Free the man."
Men who do this work stop bracing for conflict and start moving through it. They describe feeling steady in moments that used to make them lose it — with real changes the people closest to them notice first.
Here you'll learn toPhil is a follower of Jesus, husband, and father of three girls. Before becoming a therapist, he worked as a school counselor, drove tour buses in Alaska, and worked as a commercial fisherman. He's also an amateur woodworker with a Great Dane named Guinness. He built Grounded Pursuit because the tools that changed his own life need to be available outside the therapy room.
"Learning these skills has changed my life. I'm more grounded, more secure in my marriage, and more present as a father — and my family feels it."
Win Your Money Back Guarantee. Complete every requirement — daily posts, every session, every module, every assignment — for 180 consecutive days, and I'll refund your full investment. Every dollar. The man who does that level of work won't want it back.
Satisfaction Guarantee. If you've done the work and you're not satisfied at the end of 180 days, I'll keep working with you — at no additional cost — until you succeed.